Osho,
Why is it that I feel I need to have approval and be recognized, in my work especially? It puts me in a trap – I cannot do without it. I know I am in this trap, but I am caught in it and I cannot seem to get out of it. Can you help me be able to find the door?
The question is from Kendra. It has to be remembered that it is everybody’s question.
Our whole life’s structure is such that we are taught that unless there is recognition we are nobody, we are worthless. The work is not important, but the recognition. And this is putting things upside down. The work should be important – a joy in itself. You should work, not to be recognized, but because you enjoy being creative; you love the work for its own sake.
There have been very few people who have been able to escape from the trap the society puts you in – like Vincent van Gogh. He went on painting – hungry, without a house, without clothes, without medicine, sick – but he went on painting. Not a single painting was being sold, there was no recognition from anywhere, but the strange thing was that in those conditions he was still happy – happy because what he wanted to paint he was able to paint. Recognition or no recognition, his work was intrinsically valuable.
By the age of thirty-three he had committed suicide – not because of any misery, anguish, no, but simply because he had painted his last painting, on which he had been working for almost one year. He tried dozens of times, but it was not up to his standard and he destroyed it. Finally he managed to paint the sun the way he had longed to.
He committed suicide, writing a letter to his brother, “I am not committing suicide out of despair. I am committing suicide because now there is no point in living – my work is done. Moreover, it has been difficult to find ways of livelihood. But it was okay because I had some work to do, some potential in me needed to become actual. It has blossomed, so now it is pointless to live like a beggar.
“Up to now I had not even thought about it, I had not even looked at it. But now it is the only thing left. I have blossomed to my utmost; I am fulfilled, and now to drag on, finding ways of livelihood, seems to be just stupid. For what? So it is not a suicide according to me, but just that I have come to a fulfillment, a full stop, and joyously I am leaving the world. Joyously I lived, joyously I am leaving the world.”
Now, almost a century afterward, each of his paintings is worth millions of dollars. There are only two hundred paintings available. He must have painted thousands, but they have been destroyed; nobody took any note of them.
Now to have a van Gogh painting means you have an aesthetic sense. His painting gives you recognition. The world never gave any recognition to his work, but he never cared. And this should be the way to look at things.
Work if you love it. Don’t ask for recognition. If it comes, take it easily; if it does not come, do not think about it. Your fulfillment should be in the work itself. If everybody learns this simple art of loving his work, whatever it is, enjoying it without asking for any recognition, we would have a more beautiful and celebrating world. As it is, the world has trapped you in a miserable pattern: what you are doing is not good because you love it, because you do it perfectly, but because the world recognizes it, rewards it, gives you gold medals, Nobel Prizes.
They have taken away the whole intrinsic value of creativity and destroyed millions of people – because you cannot give millions of people Nobel Prizes. They have created the desire for recognition in everybody, so nobody can work peacefully, silently, enjoying whatever he is doing. And life consists of small things. For those small things there are no rewards, no titles given by the governments, no honorary degrees given by the universities.

One of the great poets of the twentieth century, Rabindranath Tagore, lived in Bengal, India. He had published his poetry, his novels, in Bengali – but no recognition came to him. Then he translated a small book, Gitanjali, Offering of Songs into English. He was aware that the original has a beauty which the translation does not have and cannot have – because these two languages, Bengali and English, have different structures, different ways of expression.
Bengali is very sweet. Even if you fight, it seems you are engaged in a nice conversation. It is very musical; each word is musical. That quality is not in English, and cannot be brought to it; it has different qualities. But somehow he managed to translate it, and the translation – which is a poor thing compared to the original – received the Nobel Prize. Then suddenly the whole of India became aware of it. The book had been available in Bengali, in other Indian languages for years and nobody had taken any note of it.
Every university wanted to give him a DLitt. Kolkata, where he lived, was the first university, obviously, to offer him an honorary degree. He refused. He said, “You are not giving a degree to me; you are not giving recognition to my work, you are giving recognition to the Nobel Prize, because the book has been here in a far more beautiful way, and nobody has bothered even to write an appraisal.”
He refused to take any DLitts. He said, “It is insulting to me.”
Jean-Paul Sartre, one of the great novelists, and a man of tremendous insight into human psychology, refused the Nobel Prize. He said, “I have received enough reward while I was creating my work. A Nobel Prize cannot add anything to it – on the contrary, it pulls me down. It is good for amateurs who are in search of recognition; I am old enough, and I have enjoyed enough. I have loved whatever I have done. It was its own reward, and I don’t want any other reward, because nothing can be better than that which I have already received.” And he was right. But the right people are so few in the world, and the world is full of wrong people living in traps.

Why should you bother about recognition? Bothering about recognition has meaning only if you don’t love your work; then it is meaningful, then it seems to substitute. You hate the work, you don’t like it, but you are doing it because there will be recognition; you will be appreciated, accepted. Rather than thinking about recognition, reconsider your work. Do you love it? – then that is the end. If you do not love it – then change it!
The parents, the teachers are always reinforcing that you should be recognized, you should be accepted. This is a very cunning strategy to keep people under control.

I was told again and again in my university, “You should stop doing these things: you go on asking questions which you know perfectly well cannot be answered, and which put the professor in an embarrassing situation. You have to stop it; otherwise these people will take revenge. They have power – they can fail you.”
I said, “I don’t bother about it. Right now I am enjoying asking questions and making them feel ignorant. They are not courageous enough simply to say, ‘I do not know.’ Then there would be no embarrassment. But they want to pretend that they know everything. I am enjoying it; my intelligence is being sharpened. Who cares about examinations? They can fail me only when I appear in the examinations – who is going to appear? If they have the idea that they can fail me, I will not enter the examinations, and I will remain in the same class. They will have to pass me just out of fear that again for one year they will have to face me!”
They all passed me, and helped me to pass, because they wanted to get rid of me. In their eyes I was also destroying other students, because other students started questioning things which have been accepted for centuries without any question.
While I was teaching in the university, the same thing came about from a different angle. Now I was asking the students questions, to bring to their attention that all the knowledge that they have gathered is borrowed, and they know nothing. I told them that I didn’t care about their degrees, I cared about their authentic experience – and they didn’t have any. They were simply repeating books which are out of date; they had been proved wrong long ago. Now the authorities of the university were threatening me, “If you continue in this way, harassing students, you will be thrown out of the university.”
I said, “This is strange – I was a student and I could not ask questions to the professors; now I am a professor and I cannot ask questions to the students! So what function is this university fulfilling? It should be a place where questions are asked, quests begin. Answers have to be found not in the books, but in life and in existence.”
I said, “You can throw me out of the university, but remember, these same students, because of whom you are throwing me out, will burn down the whole university.” I told the vice-chancellor, “You should come and see my class.”
He could not believe it – in my class there were at least two hundred students. There were no spaces, so they were sitting anywhere they could find – on the windows, on the floor. He said, “What is happening, because you have only ten students?”
I said, “These people come to listen. They dropped their classes; they love to be here. This class is a dialogue. I am not superior to them, and I cannot refuse anybody who comes to my class. Whether he is my student or not does not matter; if he comes to listen to me, he is my student. In fact you should allow me to have the auditorium. These classrooms are too small for me.”
He said, “Auditorium? You mean the whole university to gather in the auditorium? Then what will the other professors do?”
I said, “That is for them to think out. They can go and hang themselves! They should have done it long before. Seeing that their students are not going to listen to them was enough indication.”
The professors were angry, the authorities were angry. Finally they had to give me the auditorium – but very reluctantly, because the students were forcing them. But they said, “This is strange, why should students who have nothing to do with philosophy, religion or psychology go there?”
Many students told the vice-chancellor, “We love it. We never knew that philosophy, religion, psychology can be so interesting, so intriguing; otherwise we would have joined them. We thought that these are dry subjects; only very bookish kinds of people join these subjects. We have never seen any juicy people joining the subjects. But this man has made the subjects so significant that it seems that even if we fail in our own subjects, it does not matter. What we are doing is so right in itself, and we are so clear about it, that there is no question of changing it.”

Against recognition, against acceptance, against degrees… Finally I had to leave the university, not because of their threats, but because I recognized that if thousands of students could be helped by me, it was a wastage. I could help millions of people outside in the world. Why should I go on remaining attached to a small university? The whole world can be my university.
You can see: I have been condemned. That is the only recognition I have received. I have been in every way misrepresented. Everything that can be said against a man has been said against me; everything that can be done against a man has been done against me. Do you think this is recognition? But I love my work. I love it so much that I don’t even call it work; I simply call it my joy.
Everybody who was in some way elder to me, well-recognized, has told me, “What you are doing is not going to give you any respectability in the world.”
But I said, “I have never asked for respectability, and I don’t see what I will do with it. I cannot eat it, I cannot drink it.”
Learn one basic thing: do whatever you want to do, love to do, and never ask for recognition. That is begging. Why should one ask for recognition? Why should one hanker for acceptance?
Look deep down in yourself. Perhaps you don’t like what you are doing, perhaps you are afraid that you are on the wrong track. Acceptance will help you feel that you are right. Recognition will make you feel that you are going toward the right goal.
The question is of your own inner feelings; it has nothing to do with the outside world. Why depend on others? All these things depend on others – you yourself are becoming dependent.
I would not accept any Nobel Prize. All this condemnation from all the nations around the world, from all the religions, is more valuable to me. Accepting the Nobel Prize means I am becoming dependent – now I will not be proud of myself, but proud of the Nobel Prize. Right now I can only be proud of myself; there is nothing else I can be proud of.
This way you become an individual. To be an individual living in total freedom, on your own feet, drinking from your own sources, is what makes a man really centered, rooted. That is the beginning of his ultimate flowering.
These so-called recognized people, honored people, are full of rubbish and nothing else. But they are full of the rubbish which the society wants them to be filled with – and the society compensates them by giving them rewards.
Any man who has any sense of his own individuality lives by his own love, by his own work, without caring at all what others think of it. The more valuable your work is, the less the possibility is of getting any respect for it. And if your work is the work of a genius then you are not going to see any respect in your life; you will be condemned. Then, after two or three centuries, statues of you will be made, your books will be respected – because it takes almost two or three centuries for humanity to pick up as much intelligence as a genius has today. The gap is vast.
Being respected by idiots you have to behave according to their manners, their expectations. To be respected by this sick humanity you have to be sicker than they are. Then they will respect you. But what will you gain? You will lose your soul and you will gain nothing.

Osho,
Would you talk to us about the difference between love and trust? It seems to me that trust is of greater significance in our relationship to you than love. When I say, “Osho I love you,” I'm speaking of a feeling that is colored and defined by other love relationships, a feeling that is limited by my state of unenlightenment. I speak as if I have some comprehension of what my love toward you implies.

When I say, “Osho I trust you,” I am saying, “Do with me whatever needs to be done. Lead me into unimagined and unimaginable places: I am yours.”

Trust seems to embrace the understanding that it is available even to things beyond its comprehension. Love, unenlightened love, also seems outgoing, somewhat aggressive; the “I” very conscious of itself as an entity. While trust – even in its unenlightened form – seems to have a quality of utter let-go in it. The “I” is only attached to it for linguistics, because the trusting person acknowledges that he himself may disappear.
It is Maneesha’s question. It is not a question at all. She has answered it herself, and beautifully. She has said exactly what I would have said. That’s what I would like for each of you, by and by: to come to an understanding that when you ask a question, you can answer it exactly the way I will be answering it.
Trust is certainly a higher value than love. In trust, love is implied; but in love, trust is not implied. When you say, “I trust in you, Osho” it is understood that you love. But when you say you love, trust has nothing to do with it. In fact your love is very suspicious, very untrusting, very much afraid, always on guard, watching the person you love.
Lovers almost become detectives. They are spying on each other. Love is beautiful if it comes as a part of trust. And it always comes as a part of trust, because trust cannot be without love. But love can be without trust, and a love without trust is ugly; deep down it has all kinds of jealousies, suspicions, distrust.
It is also true that when you say, “I love you,” it is not a surrender; it is not a readiness to be dissolved. It is not a readiness to be taken to unknown and unknowable spaces. When you say, “I love you,” you stand equal, and there is a certain aggressive quality in it. That’s why from the very beginnings of humanity everywhere, and in every time, the woman has not taken the initiative to say “I love you.” She has waited for the man to say, “I love you” – because the heart of the woman feels that aggressiveness. But man has a harder heart; he does not feel that aggressiveness – in fact he enjoys it.
But when you say, “I trust you,” it is a deep surrender, an openness, a receptivity, a declaration to yourself and to the universe: “Now if this man takes me even to hell, it is okay with me: I trust him. If it looks like hell to me, it must be a fault of my vision. He cannot take me to hell.”
In trust you will always find faults with yourself; in love you will always find faults with the one you are in love with. In trust you are always, without saying it, in a state of apology: “I am ignorant. I am sleepy, unconscious. There is a possibility of saying something wrong, doing something wrong, so be merciful toward me, have compassion on me.” Trust implies so much. It is such a treasure.
When you say, “I love you,” there is a subtle current of possessiveness. Without being said, it is understood, “Now you are my possession, nobody else should love you.”
In trust there is no question of possessing the person you trust. On the contrary, you are saying, “Please possess me. Destroy me as an ego. Help me to disappear and melt in you, so there is no resistance in going with you.”
Love is a constant struggle, a fight; it demands. “I love you,” means, “You have to love me too. In fact, I love you only because I want you to love me.” It is a simple bargain; hence the fear: “You should not love anybody else. Nobody should love you, because I don’t want anybody to be partners in my love, to be sharers in my love.”
The unconscious mind of man goes on thinking as if love is a quantity, that there is a certain quantity of love. If I love you, then you should possess the whole quantity. If I love a few other people the quantity will be distributed, you will not get all of it; hence the jealousy, the spying, the fighting, the nagging. All that is ugly goes on behind a beautiful word, love.
In trust there is no question of any fighting. It is really a surrender. When you say, “Osho I trust in you,” it means, “From this moment my fight with you stops. Now I am yours; you can do whatever you want. You can kill me, but I will not resist because I am no longer there – I have given myself to you. Now it is up to you: whatsoever you feel right, do it.”
Trust is not competitive; hence there is no jealousy. You can trust me, millions of people can trust me. In fact, the more people will trust me, the happier you will be. You will be rejoicing that so many people are trusting. It is not so with love.
But in trust, all that is beautiful in love is implied. The moment you say, “I trust in you, Osho,” you have also said, “I love you.” But now, because of the trust, the “I” is no longer existent, only love. And love without the ego creates no problems: “Many people can love you, and the more people love you, the happier I will be.” But this is because of trust.
Trust is perhaps the most beautiful word in the human language. Trust is so close to truth that if it is total, then this very moment your trust becomes your truth, a revelation, a revolution.

Osho,
This weekend there is a big sannyasin festival in Florence with dance and meditation and music. Is your heart with all these thousands of sannyasins?
In the first place, there are not going to be thousands of sannyasins there, for the simple reason that the people who are organizing it are no longer with me. They are trying to cheat the sannyasins. Only three hundred sannyasins have booked for it, and the organizers are declaring it to be the first world festival since the last one in the commune in Oregon, America.
But my name is not mentioned in it. It is not my festival. It is those few people, those few therapists, who want to exploit the sannyasins. But they are in trouble, because the three hundred sannyasins going will only cover the expenses. They were hoping thousands would go. Also, the three hundred are going because they are not aware that these people have started working against me.
My heart will be with my people wherever they are. I will be with my sannyasins, and I have to be, particularly to show to them that this is not my festival, that they have been deceived, that the people on the stage have ugly ideas. They are all pretending to be masters, that they have all become enlightened.
But the festival is going to be a fiasco, because my presence is not going to be on the stage, but my utter absence. I will be present in the audience. These three hundred people who are going are going to ask, “By what right have you called the sannyasins for a world festival when you yourselves are no longer sannyasins? On whose authority?” But it is a good chance for sannyasins to see the people who are in the role of Judas, selling their own master for thirty pieces of silver.
As far as sannyasins are concerned, I am always with them. In this so-called world festival I will be more strongly there in the audience, to make them feel that the stage is empty, that the stage is dark and there is no light. The people who are pretending are going to be exposed, and they will never try anything like this again.
So inform all your friends: go there and ask the people on the stage, “On what authority have you called the sannyasins? You are not sannyasins. You are not masters, you are not enlightened and you had no guts ever to say this in the commune. But now, because Osho is not present, you are trying to play the role of enlightened masters.”
In fact, I would have loved to go there and suddenly walk onto the stage and see what happens to those therapists, but I cannot enter Italy. The government is stubborn, although sixty-five very eminent people from different professions, known worldwide, have protested that there is no reason why I should be prevented.
But the government is simply silent, because the pope is heavy and the politicians are beggars. They are not afraid of intellectuals, painters, musicians, sculptors, architects, writers – they are not afraid of these people. They are afraid of the pope, because he holds the votes. But more protests are going to be presented to the government, and really eminent people are showing a tremendous interest in why a single individual who has done no harm to the country, who has never been in the country, should be prevented.
So I will not be able to go there. But my presence will be with my sannyasins, wherever they are. You have to write to all your friends in Italy: “Make it clear to these people: ‘You cannot exploit sannyasins. If you are no longer sannyasins, then simply get out from here. This is a festival of sannyasins – we will manage it. Leave the stage! The empty stage is far better than a stage full of those who have betrayed.’”

Osho,
The most painful experience in the world is to be angry with you. This is not a question – only an expression of sheer joy at feeling free again to love you.
That’s right! It must be from Chetana! To be angry with me is one of the most difficult things. You can ask Vivek, because she suffers many times for my sake, for my safety. I can understand that if she becomes angry it is not against me, but then she suffers so much because of anger.
You love me so much – you cannot conceive of being angry with me. But once in a while, just a taste is good. That will prevent you from going into such spaces in the future.
Of course for Vivek it is difficult. Now she has been sad and worried because I have been continuously mistreated by the police, jail authorities, governments, deported from one place to another. And she knows that she cannot do anything to prevent it. This whole sadness sometimes turns into anger. Now she cannot even be angry with those governments; she can only be angry with me. But then to be angry with me is really difficult. It is almost an impossible task! Those who have to pass through it know its hell.
But one thing is good about it – there is always something good, even in the worst situation – that nothing remains forever. You come out of it, and then you feel a tremendous freedom and joy and understanding.

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