TO OSHO SPEAK ON THIS MEDITATION
"WHEN IN SUCH EMBRACE YOUR SENSES ARE SHAKEN AS LEAVES, ENTER
When in such embrace, in such deep communion with the beloved or the
lover, your senses are shaken as leaves, enter this shaking. We have
even become afraid: while making love you do not allow your bodies to
move much, because if your bodies are allowed much movement the sex
act spreads all over your body. You can control it when it is
localized at the sex center. The mind can remain in control. When it
spreads all over your body, you cannot control it. You may start
shaking, you may start screaming, and you will not be able to control
your body once the body takes over.
We suppress movements. Particularly, all over the world, we suppress
all movements, all shaking for women. They remain just like dead
bodies. You are doing something to them; they are not doing anything
to you. They are just passive partners. Why is this happening? Why all
over the world do men suppress women in such a way? There is fear --
because once a woman's body becomes possessed, it is very difficult
for a man to satisfy her: because a woman can have chain orgasms; a
man cannot have. A man can have only one orgasm; a woman can have
chain orgasms. There are cases of multiple orgasms reported. Any woman
can have at least three orgasms in a chain, but man can have only one.
And with man's orgasm, the woman is aroused and is ready for further
orgasms. Then it is difficult. Then how to manage it?
She needs another man immediately, and group sex is a taboo. All over
the world we have created monogamous societies. We seem to feel that
it is better to suppress the woman. So, really, eighty to ninety
percent of women never know what orgasm is. They can give birth to
children; that is another thing. They can satisfy the man; that is
also another thing. But they themselves are never satisfied. So if you
see such bitterness in women all over the world -- sadness,
bitterness, frustration -- it is natural. Their basic need is not
Shaking is just wonderful because when you shake in your sex act the
energy starts flowing all over the body, the energy vibrates all over
the body. Every cell of the body is involved then. Every cell becomes
alive because every cell is a sex cell.
When you were born, two sex cells met and your being was created, your
body was created, those two sex cells are everywhere in your body.
They have multiplied and multiplied and multiplied, but your basic
unit remains the sex cell. When you shake all over your body, it is
not only a meeting of you with your beloved. Within your body also,
each cell is meeting with the opposite cell. This shaking shows it. It
will look animal-like, but man IS an animal and there is nothing wrong
This second sutra says:-
"WHEN IN SUCH EMBRACE YOUR SENSES ARE SHAKEN AS
A great wind is blowing and a tree is shaking. Even the roots are
shaking, every leaf is shaking. Just be like a tree. A great wind is
blowing, and sex IS a great wind -- a great energy blowing through
you. Shake! Vibrate! Allow every cell of your body to dance, and this
should be for both. The beloved is also dancing, every cell vibrating.
Only then can you both meet, and then that meeting is not mental. It
is a meeting of your bio-energies.
Enter this shaking, and while shaking don't remain aloof. Don't be a
spectator, because mind is the spectator. Don't stand aloof! Be the
shaking, become the shaking. Forget everything and become the shaking.
It is not that your body is shaking: it is YOU, your whole being. You
become the shaking itself. Then there are not two bodies, two minds.
In the beginning, there are two shaking energies, and in the end just
a circle -- not two.
What will happen in this circle? One, you will be part of an
existential force -- not a societal mind, but an existential force.
You will be part of the whole cosmos. In that shaking you will be part
of the whole cosmos. That moment is of great creation. You are
dissolved as solid bodies. You have become liquid -- flowing into each
other. The mind is lost, the division is lost. You have a oneness.
This is ADVAITA, this is non-duality. And if you cannot feel this
non-duality, then all the philosophies of non-duality are useless.
They are just words. Once you know this non-dual existential moment,
then only can you understand the Upanishads. Then only you can
understand the mystics -- what they are talking about when they talk
of a Cosmic oneness, a wholeness. Then you are not separate from the
world, not alien to it. Then the existence becomes your home. And with
that feeling that "Now I am at home in the existence," all
worries are lost. Then there is no anguish, no struggle, no conflict.
This is what Lao Tzu calls Tao, what Shankara calls ADVAITA. You can
choose your own word for it, but through a deep love embrace it is
easy to feel it. But be alive, shaking, and become the shaking itself.