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WOMAN:
THE SOURCE OF LIFE
Osho
often said that with the suppression of women, 50
per cent of the world's creativity has not been
allowed to blossom. If this hadn't happened, the
world would have been more beautiful and richer
place.
“The woman should be given her rights to grow in
her own uniqueness, and that will enhance the whole
society. It will enhance man too because man begins
his life in the woman's womb.”
Read on as Osho brings out the essence of the fair
gender….
“The woman has lived down the ages as a prisoner.
In the name of religion, in the name of morality,
in the name of chastity -- all great names but hiding
a simple and ugly fact: slavery, spiritual slavery.
Education was not allowed, social movement was not
allowed. In different countries, in different ways,
the woman has been reduced to a subhuman status.
Because she is not educated, she has to be dependent
on man financially. She cannot compete with man
in the marketplace or anywhere else. She is debarred
from any possible evolution of consciousness in
any dimension.
For example, there have not been any great painters
or poets or musicians or sculptors from the world
of women. Not that woman is incapable or intrinsically
has no potential, but potential alone is not enough.
It needs opportunity to become actual and man has
removed all opportunities for woman's growth. That's
why there is no sense of humor in women. They cannot
in fact enjoy laughter. Their very situation is
sad. They are living in chains, invisible, they
are living in prisons. But they have lived in those
prisons for so long that everybody has forgotten
that they are prisons. They are in every way handicapped,
prevented from everything creative -- even prevented
from being spiritual beings.
It is a very sad story that half of humanity has
been prevented from every creative dimension. And
this half of humanity has far bigger a heart than
man, has more capacity for sensitivity than man,
can create in many dimensions in a far superior
way than any man, but she has just not been given
any opportunity. On the contrary, all kinds of preventive
measures have been taken so that she remains enslaved.
It is so ugly, so condemnable that because of this
very few women could become enlightened.
And they have more potential for it than man, for
the simple reason that nature endows them in a few
dimensions with greater energy and greater power
-- because they have to be mothers. Nature depends
on them for reproduction, for life to continue.
Man's hand in life's perpetuation is negligible.
On the contrary, man has been the cause of bringing
destruction and death to millions of people around
the globe. As far back as you can go, you will always
find man fighting. His whole effort, his whole intelligence
and genius has been devoted singularly in creating
more powerful weapons to destroy.
Woman is the source of life; man seems to be in
the service of death. And of course the source of
life has more creative possibilities than man can
ever have. It is not a coincidence that even those
few men who have been great musicians or dancers
or poets or painters, in some way became as graceful
as women.
Friedrich Nietzsche had a great insight when he
said, "I cannot accept Gautam Buddha because
he has a feminine quality." Friedrich Nietzsche
is deep down a male chauvinist. In Gautam Buddha's
whole life and whole philosophy, he finds only one
thing that is significant to him, and that is the
feminine grace of the man. And because of that he
condemns Gautam Buddha.
His condemnation is not based on any argument against
the philosophy of Gautam Buddha. His condemnation
is that his philosophy must be wrong because it
creates a feminine grace, it makes people incapable
of violence. Gautam Buddha's meditation techniques
will destroy war, and without war there will be
no great men. It is war that creates great leaders.
A strange argument in favor of war. A very strange
idea against peace, against silence, against grace,
against enlightenment itself.
But as far as I am concerned, to me it shows that
the woman has more potential to become enlightened.
She is far closer to enlightenment because she already
has the grace, she already has a loving heart. She
has been corrupted badly, poisoned badly, but still,
in spite of all that has been done to her, she is
capable of coming out of the dark night.
The woman has had nothing to laugh about, she has
had only things to weep and cry for. She knows perfectly
well how to cry; she is expert in tears. Laughter
has been a faraway goal. What has the woman to laugh
about? Her whole life is so badly damaged: her potential
has been so much crushed, her individuality has
been kept in such a bondage, her wings have been
cut, her roots destroyed. No other class has suffered
so much through the hands of man as woman. And she
has given birth to man, and she has raised man,
and she has loved man, and she has been a companion
to him in the darkest nights. She has been a solace
in the most depressive moments, she has been an
ointment for all his wounds. Still, man has paid
her only with slavery and more slavery.
It seems there is some psychological fear. Man seems
to have sensed it at the very beginning that woman
has some more superior powers, some more vitality,
and if she is allowed total freedom to grow she
will go far ahead of man. It is better to keep her
wings cut so that she cannot fly in the open sky;
to keep her weak; to teach her, condition her that
she has to depend on man.
The Hindu scriptures say, when you are a small girl
you should depend on your father; when you are a
young woman you should depend on your husband; and
when you are an old woman you should depend on your
children. But you should always depend, you should
never be independent. The ugliest words of abuse
have been used in all the so-called holy scriptures.
The ultimate result is that the woman has become
very bitter. Her whole being has become a cry for
revolt. She is not at peace to laugh at things;
she is in utter misery and despair, and unless she
becomes liberated she will not have a sense of humor.
Once she becomes liberated, she will leave man far
behind in all creative dimensions and she will be
really joyous and playful. Naturally, she is not
serious, she is not concerned with serious things.
Man by nature seems to be serious. If you talk about
nonserious things, he thinks you are being childish.
The woman never talks about God or about heaven
or about hell. She is not interested in the holy
gospels, she is interested in all the unholy gossips!
She is interested in a very nearby life. She is
pragmatic, practical, realistic; she is not a stargazer.
I am reminded about a great astrologer. The story
is from ancient Greece, from the times of Socrates.
The astrologer was looking at the stars in the night,
and he was going to look at the stars at a place
out of the city, in the open ... to see better --
he had only primitive instruments. And because he
was looking towards the sky and not looking at the
earth, he fell into a well, and he shouted. An old
woman living by the side, on her farm, came to rescue
him, and when he was out of the well he said to
the old woman, "You may not know me, but I
am the greatest astrologer in the whole land. I
am the astrologer not only of the king of Greece
but of the kings of many other countries. Even very
rich people stand in line to see me, but for you
I will do a favor -- you have saved my life. You
can come any day you want and I will read your birth
chart, look into your future, into your past, and
I will not charge you anything."
The old woman laughed and she said, "Forget
all about it, I am not going to come, because if
you cannot see that a well is ahead of you, what
more future ...? First learn to see what is ahead
of you, then start telling others what is in their
unknown future. Don't befool me. You can befool
the kings. Even if you pay me, I am not going to
come. I have seen your reality."
Man has always been interested in faraway things.
The woman is never interested in faraway things,
her interest is very real. And if she is allowed
freedom -- and she will have to be allowed because
it is time .... This kind of slavery cannot be tolerated
any more; neither by women, nor by any man who has
any compassion, any intelligence, any love. This
situation has to be totally changed.
Then she will sing songs that her past is absolutely
missing. She will dance, and she will dance better
than any Nijinsky; she will paint better than any
Picasso. And her songs and her paintings and her
music and her dances will be closer to life, more
sane, more healthy. Once she is completely liberated
she will be able to produce more Buddhas, more Bodhidharmas,
more Jesuses than man has been able to. And one
thing can be said with absolute certainty, that
she will not crucify a Jesus, she will not poison
a Socrates, she will not murder a Mansoor; that
is simply inconceivable about woman.
Man is destructive, woman is creative. Her laughter
will also be of a different quality, of a far superior
quality ... more innocent and more childlike.
But Maneesha, it has not been up to now possible
simply because the woman has not been accepted as
a human being. And she has been forced to remain
in the shadows, never coming out into the light.
But I would like my people, whether they are men
or women, to feel sad about the past and to do everything
to break away from the past and its ugly inheritance.
I teach complete discontinuity.
The woman should be given her rights to grow in
her own uniqueness, and that will enhance the whole
society. It will enhance man too because man begins
his life in the woman's womb.
If all over the world the woman is allowed freedom
to grow to her potential, there will be many, many
women enlightened; many, many women mystics, poets,
painters. And they will enhance not only the woman's
part of the world -- because the world is one --
they will enhance the whole world. They will give
man also new dimensions because their ways of seeing
things are different. Man looks at things in one
way; the woman looks from a different perspective.
Life will become richer.
It is for the betterment of both man and woman that
the woman should be given every freedom and equal
opportunity for her individuality. Then there will
be a sense of humor. And the woman can laugh more
gracefully than man, she has every potential for
it -- but it is repressed, condemned, criticized.
She has lived a life of such misery that you cannot
hope that she will show some sense of humor. But
the day is not far away ... then the whole earth
will be full of laughter. Instead of talks about
war, instead of politicians giving speeches all
around the world, instead of the sermons of stupid
priests who know nothing, it will be far better
that every man and every woman is able to see the
hilarious side of life and to enjoy it.”
THE NEW DAWN # 31
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